They're at the top of Bangkok's sights and attractions must-see list, so its makes sense to kick off with visits to the Grand Palace, Temple of the Emerald Buddha and Wat Po.
After getting meditative, go modern with an afternoon shopping spree at world-class shopping malls like MBK, Siam Paragon and CentralWorld, but only after you've paid a quick visit to the famous Erawan Shrine. Here you'll see how, in Bangkok, spiritual fervour coexists peacefully with shopping fever.
Begin your foray into Thai cuisine with a dinner derived from the city's wonderful streetfood – there's a different 3-course meal to be had on every block! (See our Eating Experiences for more options). End your first day by dipping your toe into the city's nightlife: take in a cultural show like Siam Niramit or Joe Louis Puppet Theatre, meet flamboyant boy-meets-girl creations at a ladyboy show, or check out just how brutal and bloody a Thai Boxing match can be.
Take a trip to the legendary floating market. Combine it with a cycling tour and you'll get to explore the areas canals, fruit orchards and temples – and at your own pace! It's just one of many cycling adventures on offer in and around Bangkok.
Spend your afternoon having your knotted muscles unravelled with a traditional Thai massage at Wat Pho, home of the famous reclining Buddha. Alternatively, hit a heavenly city or hotel spa to get pampered, preened and pummeled in what resembles paradise.
End the day with a sunset dinner cruise past Wat Arun and other ravishing sights strewn along the 'River of Kings'. If that sounds too romantic or refined, head to backpacker ghetto Khao San Road for offbeat shopping, pad Thai sampling and cheap cocktails sipping. Commandeer a tuk-tuk for a memorable journey home.
Time to discover the city's culture. Visit the National Museum or one of many museums scattered about town, or check out the National Gallery. Explore teak houses filled with Asian antiquities, like Jim Thompson's House, Suan Pakkad Palace or Vinmanek Mansion. Take a boat ride down the city's khlongs (canals) to learn why it was called the 'Venice of the East'.
Contrast your morning discovering Bangkok's old charms, with an afternoon spent indulging in modern comforts. Watch the latest Hollywood blockbuster, enjoy a game of bowling or sing out loud and proud at karaoke. Alternatively, go for high-tea at one of the riversides 5-star hotels.
Try dusk in the city's big green lung, otherwise known as Lumpini Park. Then go bargaining for counterfeit handbags, watches, t-shirts at Patpong night market.
Head out of town on day 4 in Bangkok. Try the awe-inspiring Ancient City or the rarely seen Erawan Museum, with its huge 3-headed elephant sculpture packed full of Buddha statues and religious symbolism. Kids will love a family outing to Samphan Elephant Zoo, Safari World, or the world's biggest Crocodile Farm.
Highly recommended are day trips to the ruins of Ayutthaya (the capital of ancient Siam), Khao Yai National Park or the famous River Kwai in Kanchanaburi province.
At night, enjoy a suave dinner at one of Bangkok's debonair international restaurants (see our Tatler Reviews section for ideas). Try Breeze on the 52nd floor of State Tower for sublime alfresco dining and equally rousing views of the city, followed by martinis at a rooftop venue like Sky Bar, which juts dizzyingly over the edge of the building.
Shop for last-minute bargains, a new wardrobe or funky knick-knacks at the anything-goes Chatuchak Weekend Market – a giant outdoor labyrinth of over 15,000 stalls. Kids probably won't appreciate how hot and heaving it is, so take them to make faces at the monkeys at Dusit Zoo or the manta-rays in Siam Ocean World.
Hit Chinatown in the evening. Explore winding back alleys, meet street hawkers selling everything from amulets to animal parts, and soak up the anarchic atmosphere. Try the wonderful seafood. Or dive into a bowl of Bird Nest Soup.
Last night? Make it one to remember. Go chic and cosmopolitan in the Silom, RCA or Sukhumvit area's hippest, dressiest, most happening nightclubs. Rub shoulders with the city's young wealthy elite in the Thonglor area of Sukhumvit.